bring it

The guy who: makes u laugh out loud, makes u pout, makes u wanna b a betta woman, make u woman enough 2 admit: how much u need him & love him, how much u respect him, how much u appreciate the smell of him, the hands of his, 2 the way he kisses. u. The type of man who: let's u have ur own light, supports ur grind, admires ur shine, who shares ur beliefs, who sets u free, who allows u room 2 breathe & be, the best woman that u knew u cld b. The type of woman, who is woman enough 2 grow, & let go, b a woman of honor & distinction, a leader, a healer, a teacher. He is not afraid 2 learn from her, bow 2 her, stand up 4 her. Protect & provide. She is of his rib, he holds her most hi. he worships her, she praises him. they love 2 love eachother & begin again. they have no end. tattooed souls. not even death cld part them. there is no greater love than the love of a friend. he is I & I am him. we walk cloaked n love. from the crown of r head 2 the souls of r feet. We r meek & mild. we're goin the distance & I wld walk 5,000 miles. his sky is littered of the intelligent kind. the deep type. if she was drownin, he wld save her. Surrounded by sudection, his only love he still savors. Its her flavor, its the armor. Of honor & respect. Love is a blessin, dnt evr 4get. 4 he is the seasons & I the wind. We r once & always. then again. tattooed souls. sacred heart & mind. He is forever, & I am time. *its not often we women meet a man who is capable of givin us the support & encouragement we need. so often we complain about what a man isn't. but its so rare we step outside r bitter & say heyyy 2 those men who r more than any textbook definition. the man who is so pure & genuine he doesn't have 2 say it, he doesn't have 2 boast or brag. their way of teachin is not 2 put people dwn nor make them feel small. a man who is strong, patient, understanding. a man who will stand true 2 his words & morals & only wants to break the rules w his woman. a man who is kind 2 strangers, loyal 2 friends & a great role model & friend to his child

The Quickest Way

So its been a minute since this Sexy Suburbian wrote about relationships. I'm a lil intrigued. Well not really, but kinda. I cnt b disappointed anymore by this truth I am about to share. Girl meets boi...nah nah nah, Lady meets boi. Lady percievs or more so expects, boi 2 be a man. @ the very least, a Gentleman. Boi persues lady. So Lady & gent talk & Lady is like "ok, we may b on 2 smething here...He just MIGHT not b like all the lames that came b4 him." So Lady explains 2 boi, her values, dreams, goals, aspirations. She shares w him, her views on politics & her position on datin & casual sex. Lady expresses n great detail how casual sex is not an option but gettin 2 knw eachother on a deeper level is the real key factor. Boi listens & even responds as if he mirrors her perspective on all of the that. Lady is impressed & arrangements 2 meet & get 2 knw eachother r made. The stage is set, let the show begin. As the music plays & the 2 begin 2 dance, it becomes quite clear that, not only does boi have no real morals n place, but he has no respect 4 ANYTHING, lady was talkin bout. He tries, repeatedly 2 convince her 2 engage n sexual acts that she repeatedly says no 2. He tells her relax & stop bein so shy. She tells him no, no, & no again & yet, ever the lame, Boi continues 2 try. He attempts 2 lure her w kisses that she dnt wnt, groppin her breats & her behind. Thinkin "she likes it, she just fakin." When boi sees that Lady is stickin 2 her principles, she has put her new peep toe, slouch boot down on the matter & there is NO changin her mind, 1 of 2 thngs happen: Lady rarely hears, or most likely, never hears from him again. These bois r disguised as men. & so Lady is frustrated. Men wnt a woman who aint goin give n2 his pursuits right away. Boys, like children are rushed & eager 2 fulfill their own wants driven by greed & selfishness. Sure lady has boned a guy or 2, off sme Love Jones, mayb Love @ 1st sight. type ish optimistic hopeless romantic or foolish/naive? idk...We'll let love decide...cont