Friday, October 10, 2008

The Quickest Way

So its been a minute since this Sexy Suburbian wrote about relationships. I'm a lil intrigued. Well not really, but kinda. I cnt b disappointed anymore by this truth I am about to share. Girl meets boi...nah nah nah, Lady meets boi. Lady percievs or more so expects, boi 2 be a man. @ the very least, a Gentleman. Boi persues lady. So Lady & gent talk & Lady is like "ok, we may b on 2 smething here...He just MIGHT not b like all the lames that came b4 him." So Lady explains 2 boi, her values, dreams, goals, aspirations. She shares w him, her views on politics & her position on datin & casual sex. Lady expresses n great detail how casual sex is not an option but gettin 2 knw eachother on a deeper level is the real key factor. Boi listens & even responds as if he mirrors her perspective on all of the that. Lady is impressed & arrangements 2 meet & get 2 knw eachother r made. The stage is set, let the show begin. As the music plays & the 2 begin 2 dance, it becomes quite clear that, not only does boi have no real morals n place, but he has no respect 4 ANYTHING, lady was talkin bout. He tries, repeatedly 2 convince her 2 engage n sexual acts that she repeatedly says no 2. He tells her relax & stop bein so shy. She tells him no, no, & no again & yet, ever the lame, Boi continues 2 try. He attempts 2 lure her w kisses that she dnt wnt, groppin her breats & her behind. Thinkin "she likes it, she just fakin." When boi sees that Lady is stickin 2 her principles, she has put her new peep toe, slouch boot down on the matter & there is NO changin her mind, 1 of 2 thngs happen: Lady rarely hears, or most likely, never hears from him again. These bois r disguised as men. & so Lady is frustrated. Men wnt a woman who aint goin give n2 his pursuits right away. Boys, like children are rushed & eager 2 fulfill their own wants driven by greed & selfishness. Sure lady has boned a guy or 2, off sme Love Jones, mayb Love @ 1st sight. type ish optimistic hopeless romantic or foolish/naive? idk...We'll let love decide...cont

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