Beautiful Stanger

Meeting new people. For socialites, sociopaths and social butterflies alike; the high reached from meeting new people is unparalleled. It's the kick ass couple with the toddler that they address like an adult and when that fails, the resort to sign language. It's the woman standing with you in line at your fav clothing store and you not only swap new places to hang out and how to get info on the latest things happenings around town, but you swap the earrings you were going to buy because the other just suits the selected outfits much better. It's the guy you meet at the bar, who buys you a drink, engages you in great conversation, and even though he doesn't even think to get your number, you leave the encounter ever so satisfied. It's the older lady you hold the door for and the smile she gives you that warms the soul. It's the kids you slam on brakes for as they run across the street chasing a ball and you remember what it was like to be that child. Strangers. Beautiful Strangers. Thank you. The pediatric surgeon standing next to me in the bathroom at the club, noticing how well I wash my hands. The lovely group who offers you join then for drinks and a wonderful meal. Talks of politics, art, religion and even the brief conversations about nothing. Have you ever walked away from meeting someone and just been in awe afterwards. It's nice when you share a smile or a laugh with a stranger. Yes a child, you are raised (and rightfully so) not to talk to strangers. Yet as adult, unless there is reasonable doubt to suspect harm or foul play, go ahead...talk to strangers. You would be surprised the common interest that unites us as a human race. It's uncanny what you can learn from someone you would normally avoid eye contact with. When it's appropriate, extend a piece of yourself. Don't be shy. And even if you are the shy, quiet type, let others engage you. Developing strong interpersonal skills is enriching for the spirit. Never deny yourself the opportunity to gain knowledge. It's often lurking where you least expect it. And even if you don't learn anything, you might get a good giggle out of it. Appreciate differences, wallow in the new. Don't be afraid. Start small, try a simple hello to a passerby.