...the first to say Goodbye

When is goodbye necessary? Is there ever an easy to way to let someone know you need a break? You just need some time and space to sort thru all the chaos in your mind. Chaos they created. How do you get one to understand the pain they inflicted? How does one portray the depth of the wounds? A mastery at imagery will still have no such luck, should the portrait fall upon blind eyes. I believe no matter what, nothing can be seen if the vision is blocked. Nothing will be unveiled to the third eye that is cloudy. People see what they want. People know and sometimes don't even want to acknowledge. People are flawed and with all their imperfections, we should be kinder when dealing with one another. We as people, lovers, friends, must take in consideration the heart of others. So quick are we to call the one who is heartbroken, obsessed. Until we find ourselves feeling the same way. So quick are we to say someone is not in the spirit when we haven't even taken the time to understand their spirit. So many times people are quick to judge, blame and point fingers without realizing the effect their words and actions have on others. We should be more careful when we move in out of peoples lives. Yes, we all know that people are like seasons. Seasons change and often without warning or transition. It's often sudden and unexpected. It often catches u off guard and stirs up a lot of commotion and confusion. Sometimes we are negligent when it comes to the heart of others. Sometimes we don't take time to think before we act. So hurried and rushed, we forget that every action has a reaction. We know not how someone will like or dislike us. We have but our morals and beliefs (even when they are questioned or challenged) our word and actions to draw any real conclusions about people...and even then we are often mistaken. I ask that all of you, young and old think twice, three, and four times, then pray, about what you do and don't do with others. About how to handle others. About the role you are to play in another's life. Be they objects of affection, desire, assignments, business associates or new found friends, whatever and what have you. Be careful. Be gentle. Be kind. Be not a hurricane. Come in with the impact of Tsunami but leave not even a fraction of the damage. Be a force but don't interfere with a movement. Be pure and not misleading. Be compassionate, not selfish or false. Be open and be honest. Be the type of person to others you would want one to be to you.